5 signs he respects you

1.  Opinion matters to him

Be it regarding what to wear, whether to take a certain job or not, moving, trouble with friends or virtually anything else, you’re the person he comes to for advice. His decisions are still going to be his, but what you say counts. He does consider what you tell him, even when he isn’t doing what you suggest. And from time to time, he does the things you tell him to do.

2. He does not try to dictate you

Where he’s always there for you when you need him, keeping you from making the wrong choices, helping you with whatever it may be, he never tries to tell you how to live your life. He gives you the much needed space to make your own decisions and choices, to do things the way you want to do them. He never tries to take your matters in his hands. All this is because he trusts you to be capable of taking care of yourself and everything in your life.

3. He’s on team you

Any decisions that you make, you can always count on him to back you up. You’ve had an argument; he’s going to side with you. Whatever you tell him, he’d take your word for it. He’d never embarrass you in front of anyone by contradicting you in anyway. Your dignity matters to him, he wouldn’t let anyone harm it in any way, nor will he ever try doing anything of the sort.

4. He motivates you

All it takes for you to have his support is to tell him that you want to do something. Even if it’s the wackiest thing ever, he’d tell you to go for it. He constantly reminds you to take risks, even the most unimaginable ones. You could probably succeed at it and even if you don’t, he knows you can handle a few bumps in the road. And if you can’t handle it on your own, you can always lean on him as well.

5. He’s honest with you

He’s able to share everything with you. Be it the earliest memories he has, or the things he never talks about with other people, the past relationships, broken promises or any other thing. You never have to worry about him lying to you. He doesn’t mind answering calls or texts in front of you. In short, no secrets and no lies.

5 signs he respects you

1.  Opinion matters to him Be it regarding what to wear, whether to take a certain job or not, moving, trouble with friends or...

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4 self-destructive things you do after a breakup that you’ll regret later

1. A REBOUND

A rebound is a temporary soother and a life-long regret. Moving on after a break up is like learning to walk again after recovering from a leg injury. You go on and try to get hold of anything that offers you a little support to help you walk again. Similarly, as we aren’t supposed to be single and are for sure not used to it anymore, we grab onto the first person who approaches us. We forget that the best things in life are found the hard way, nothing good comes easy. Learn to walk on your own so you can stumble upon something beautiful.

2. DISTANCING YOURSELF FROM FRIENDS AND FAMILY

A lot of us fold our knees, shut our eyes and pretend to be lifeless for weeks and often months after a breakup. Our friends and family try to reach out to us and help us out but we close all doors. Often offending or even insulting a few in the process of healing. Whereas, those helping hands are the quickest ways of healing.We lose good friendships permanently if not changing them for good over this phase of let-us-be-on-our-own.

Your friends and family are the only people who can help you. Remember what you truly were before the relationship and that’s what truly heals a person.




3. STALKING THEM TO FIND OUT IF THEY HAVE MOVED ON

The last thing you want to do is see their Facebook page a million times during the day, just to see if they have moved on. Revisiting their Facebook page will still keep you connected to them and you will still feel like a part of them. What’s worst than still feeling connected to them is when you keep checking on them to see if they have moved on and you find out that they did! It’s a huge blow to the heart, it feels like a break up all over again. Don’t multiply your own pain, let them move on and let yourself heal.

4. BLAMING EVERYTHING ON EITHER ONE OF YOU

No one in a relationship, after a breakup, is to be held responsible solely. Every relationship has two people, two wills and two point of views. As I have emphasised a lot of time, there can never be one person who is a complete angel in the relationship and the other is the demented soul.

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4 EX Related Things You Need to STOP DOING

1. Stop saying you had a “unique” bond with them

This is like telling your partner that the both of you do have a special bond and love each other but the kind of bond you had with your ex, that cannot be matched with anyone. No matter how truly amazing your exes were, your partner does not want to hear about them. Even if they say they are okay with it, just trust your instincts and speak of them as less as possible, or don’t at all.

2. Stop complaining about how they “broke” you

Even though this is quite a sensitive point for you as well but your partner doesn’t need to know that even after finding them, you are still stuck in the miseries of your past. You should totally discuss it with them if it highlights a positive point about your current relationship.

Also, we start believing when we love someone that we can make them better people and their lives better as well. If you will still think of the way your ex broke you, that means your current partner isn’t good enough to put those pieces back together.



3. Get rid of those gifts

Okay! Nobody wants in their house, their partner’s ex’s stuff. It is a bad idea to start with. Don’t keep memoirs of your exes. At times, they might mean absolutely nothing to you that’s why you overlook the point of getting rid of them, but your partner doesn’t.


4. Get rid of all those videos and pictures 

Better get rid of all those up close and too-personal videos and photos you’ve had with them. No one would want to stumble upon such things from your past. Where you might not care about them being in your house anymore, your partner would really feel jolted and it might upset them greatly.

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4 Good Reasons Why You Need To Walk Away From Someone You Love

1. IT IS BETTER TO LET GO IF YOU CANT FORGIVE

Staying in the relationship, even though every time you look at your partner, they remind you of how they have hurt you and how much pain you are going through, is not wise.

You will constantly feel under appreciated and unimportant. On the other hand, your partner will be fighting within themselves and the guilt they carry.

Whether it is cheating or any mistake that has poisoned the relation. Why linger on to something that is slowly poisoning itself? It is better to free yourself and your partner from the constant torture.


2. WHEN YOU DON’T FEEL LIKE MAKING EFFORTS FOR THEIR HAPPINESS

When one of the partner has given too much and can’t give anymore or can’t find the drive to do more. That is when you need to pack your bags and bid farewell. It’s called falling out of love and it happens more often than you think.

If you don’t feel the drive to dress up for your man or to woo your woman, simply don’t care if they are happy and satisfied or not, there is no charm left or the motivation to go that extra mile for the love of your life. If this happens to you, you both have grown out of love and it is the right time to part ways.



3. THE GOOD TIMES ARE OUTWEIGHED BY THE BAD

All relationships have their highs and lows. The fluctuations are a natural part. However, when the lows dominate your relationship, something isn’t right.

The reason you started seeing your partner in the first place was because of how great the relationship made you feel.

You loved your partner because of all the good times you had, all the fun you had, and all the wonderful memories you created. If the only memories you are now creating sting your heart and bring tears to your eyes, then your best option may be to walk out the door and leave it behind.


4. YOU ARE UNHAPPY AND IT IS CLEARLY BECAUSE OF THE RELATIONSHIP

The relationships we have with people affect us differently in accordance with the importance we give them. The closer we are with someone, the more we love and care for that person and the heavier the relationship weighs on our consciousness.

The status of our relationship will greatly affect the way we feel and our entire perspective on life. If a relationship is making you miserable, making you feel worthless and continuously sad, then no one can blame you for calling it quits.

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4 ways to know you are in a relationship with a liar/cheater

1. Liars and cheaters do not trust

A liar or a cheater is always apprehensive and is always trying to find something that will help them not trust the person. As they know what people are capable of. Trust will always be the point of dispute for a very long time if you are in a relationship with them


2. The will always act to be the victim

Liars and cheaters have a bad habit of self pity. They always treat their pain to be the greater pain. Even if you fall off a tree and break the bones in your body, their pain of a mere knife cut will be more. Since such people are constantly trying to justify the fact that they lie, they are always finding reasons to help them advocate the case.
Such people will always have bigger problem from you. At times when you are explaining a tragedy to such people they will gradually move the focal point of the relationship towards themselves.



3 They will Pick the most stupid fights

This is a huge tell sign. It could be a tell sign for a lot of things though, like attention seekers would also do this.

Liars and cheaters are always on the lookout for the reasons to fight, subconsciously. As they know, one day every lie of theirs will come out in the open. They subconsciously gather information that will help them portray themselves as the victim and all their actions justified after that is being done to them.

4. Liars and cheaters are charmers

Liars and cheaters are charmers and win over people easily. They will always be the life of the group. They make you feel special which they know matters to you the most because they have no limits when it comes to lying. They would tell you the most amazing and hopeful things about what you want to hear.

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The 5 "Golden Rules" Of A Happy Long-Lasting Relationship

One of the most common questions I hear is, "How do we make our relationship work?" The answers are complicated and varied but here are 5 things that should be taken into consideration.

1. Manners. "Please," "thank you" and "you're welcome," can go a long way in helping your partner remember that you respect and love him and don't take him for granted.
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2. Play Together. Find a sport or hobby that you both love  and make it a priority in your relationship. Find something you enjoy doing together and do it more often



3. Fight like adults. In order to have productive arguments, keep these rules in mind: Don't call your spouse names. When things get really tough, take a break from the argument. Let the other person finish his/her sentences. Don't initiate a discussion when you're angry.

4. Two heads are better than one. Being in a relationship basically means you've made a merger; you've not only joined assets but inherited the other's problems as well. Rather than looking at his problems as merely his own, tackle them together. For example, if he's gaining weight, rather than pushing him to diet on his own, do it together.

5. Communicate! Talking out the tough subjects — money, religion, fidelity, raising kids —will not be the most fun you've had, but it'll be valuable.

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